Yesterday December 14th was my 54th birthday. I was delighted to receive calls from old friends and a sweet card from a pen pal of 16 years that I have yet to meet face to face. The day was fun and I felt that life was as it should be. My mentor, who is now all of ninety-five told me years ago that 54 is the youth of old age. Memory begins to fail, sight dims, hearing goes flat, sexual proweses fade and everything appears to be a vague repeat of twenty years ago. Friends and lovers begin to die off and treasured possession's break, get lost or loose their meaning.
Well! I can live with it. Life has its rhythms and our time on Earth is limited which is just as well. The young are free of the curse of "knowing too Much" the are excited and willing to take risks. The bitter quarrels both political and social fade as a new generation appears and does not share the passions of old.
Renewal means letting yesterdays wonderment disappear so that tomorrows wonderment has the stage to itself.
The Baby Boomers are all over 40 now, the old guys and gals and America, the world has a new Hip Hop face and a funkier and frankly better attitude about love, sex, and having fun!
The politics of the 2020s has already started, it is so much better! A true international culture is developing from world consumerism and international investment. The rationale for war is fading as humanity becomes integrated through media and entertainment.
GW Bush is 58 he is part of a generation of American South boys and girls stunned by the Civil Rights movement that shamed them and their parents. The pivotal event in GW Bush's life is the world telling "Dixie" 'you are wrong!'"
This new generation is indifferent to just about all the old racial, ethnic, and social stereotypes or differences. Today people are judged by their talents and the skill in using them. All these reality TV shows reinforce a sense of personal ability ability the want to use them well.
When I was born in 1950 America was in the height of the Post War Red Scare and paranoia was the call of the day. The country was prosperous, but fretful. Religion was at a high tide, Churches were full and faith was rock solid.
In his recent book Robert S. Elwood "1950: Crossroads of American Life" he shows that's much of the fear and uncertainty of today was white hot in 1950. Nothing is new, it all comes around again and again. The final consequence of the intense religiosity of the 1950s was rebellion against the rightness, lack of modern thought, and a lingering suspicion that religious leaders were cynical hucksters on the make.
Today as religion draws our attention will it again reveal itself not to be a constructive answer to our fears? Will we again turn away because religious figures will expose their inflexibility and lack of genuine insight?
As I get older I see a tragic miscalculation on the part of both sides in America's social debates. The conservatives are far to harsh, dogmatic and at times outright cruel. The liberals are too fuzzy, indecisive, and at times mean spirited in their rants at the conservatives.
Both sides need to think of the consequence of such beliefs. In 1950 church attendance was 91% at 1964 it was 43% by 1980 it was 31% in 1990 it was 52% and today despite the noise church attendance is just 54%
The United States is such a fabulous, absolutely dynamic civilization with a wonderful future. We are a sound people and we are smart in all the ways that count. We won't fail. But we must be careful and not humiliate the rest of humanity. By the time I'm 84, China and Brazil will be serious world powers. The European Union will be a center of economic muscle and cultural authority. The United States must accommodate the changes that are coming and be generous in doing so. If we act wisely, the 21st century will be a marvelous time to be alive.
I have had great fun, life has been sweet. I am blessed by superb friends and I have exciting times ahead as I publish my book and start to travel.
Youth was an adventure, old age will be a revelation and a time of exhilaration. I know I'll leave this world with a smile.